Simple words make the difference

Reunion

2010-02-01T04:46:00.000-08:00

AIESEC, I have just chaired a conference in Lithuania and now I am floating on air. What AIESEC does to me is amazing, and for every little bit of it I get, the more I want.
Being at this conference, "DARE 2010" was my first time back inside AIESEC in over a year since chairing "Drive 2009" in Iceland. And it is a mystery to me why there is a full year in between these two incredible experiences. I feel so happy, so capable, so uplifted, so energized and so driven towards experiencing and improving the world.
Despite I left office 2 years ago, I still met some familiar faces, and it is truely, truely amazing how fast friendships can be revived, I attribute that to the common platform of the AIESEC culture which I am more aware of than ever beats in my heart and run through my veins.
I was asked to give a description of my self at this conference, and when I then looked back I realized that the quality of my life has increased year-on-year since I first encountered AIESEC in the Autumn of 2004. Working with Jonas Bengtson was a huge motivational driver, and an inspiration to become a team leader myself, in the beginning of 2005 I then did become a team leader, working with Kasper Ganer and Mads Lindegaard Larsen - amazing guys. Following this I still can never thank my LCP Stefan for believing in me and sending me to Izmir, Turkey for EuroLDS in March 2005, this was the first place where I really realized how much capacity AIESEC had, and how ready I was to change, things felt right. Even after running unsuccessfully for LCP at CBS, and possibly re-thinking my motivation behind my AIESEC involvement, I continued. This again allowed the goddess of luck to look down on me and help me, since by the end of the summer the new LCP, Dennis called me and offered me the position of LC VP SR. A perfect role for the new emerging me, a chance to work with people and to recruit the right ones. I loved my position, and AIESEC was a highlight for me through a very boring school year of 05/06. By the summer of 2006 I was ready to leave for Erasmus exchange in Reykjavik University, Iceland, I however squeezed in being on the OC for ScaLDS in Denmark, an amazing conference that should turn out to change my life. In the conference I was looking around and gathering impressions to find where in AIESEC I could continue learning and developing, and it was in this search that I spontaniously said to Louise, the MCP, "Enjoy your term, I will succeed you". With those word I left Denmark, and AIESEC in Denmark to go on exhcange, but the thought of running for MCP circled in my head all the time, and with just one month of arriving in Iceland I started using all the moves, all my network, and all my knowledge to move my self into a position where I would successfully run for MCP, and after 5 months of chats, talks, lobbyism and learning through my coach, Carsten, I ran and was elected. With this kicked off a wild and turbulent year starting with IPM in Egypt, another amazing and unforgettable conference.
TBC

Living in a bubble

2009-10-19T09:13:00.000-07:00

"To travel is to live" so said H.C. Andersen, and hence being away from my home in Denmark I must travelling. No doubt that I am, and I feel alive, so the old writer was right.... or was he? I have always enjoyed to be travelling, mostly because of the change that it brings, of the diversity it offers and the way it changes my view of the world.

However, when travelling becomes the norm, and when change becomes constant then it feels like being in a vacuum where change is expected and without power to overwhelm. This I call to live in a bubble. But as all bubbles, financial, real estate or bubbles of soap they are transparent or hard to see. I have now however spotted how I live in one, I enjoy living in Reykjavik, I have much of what I have always hoped for, close friends, I do community service and I feel i make a difference. I am closer to being complete. But as with so many things, "you get some you give some", and I have until yesterday not realized what I was giving, but Anders helped me see that.

As he put his arm around me and said "I am so happy to be here, bro" I realized what it is that I have given up to achieve all of the above, I have given up intimacy. As I realized this my mood deteriated for the sole reason that I have always seen this as very central to my life, but I had lost sight of it. This is scary, because it shows the path to how core values are forgotten or pushed aside, a development I had sworn never to take part in.

But the bubble of living in Reykjavik has a will of its own.

Dem som overflødiggjorde det frie valg

2009-10-07T05:26:00.000-07:00

Det lader til at vores folkevalgt betragter sig selv som vores forældre. Borgerne i Danmark ligger nu hver uge øre til endnu flere forskel om hvordan vi skal opføre os, hvilke valg vi skal træffe og hvordan vi skal bruge vores hverdag.

I løbet af den sidste er følgende tikket over nyhedsskærmene:

"Kamphunderacer skal forbydes", det er dybt beklageligt at vores regering føler sig så paternalistisk og i en uhørt grad søger at begrænse borgernes frie valg.

"Unge skal lave noget", ja ingen tvivl om at alle borgere i samfundet har et ansvar for at føre det Danmark videre som vi kender. Men at gå ned i unges kalendre og søge om de laver noget fornuftigt er et forslag helt til hundene (selvfølgelig ikke kamphunde, det må vi jo ikke)

"S vil forbyde unge at købe brezzere", nu hopper oppositionen således også på vognen med formynderiske forslag. At skulle lovgive på de enkelte varegruppe, overfor bestemte alderssegmenter må antageligt være en masdodont opgave (men måske de kan hyre de unge til i bedste stasi-stil at holde øje med hinanden, og der lave noget fornuftigt så som at håndhæve loven)

Sager som er fremme i medierne giver det stemmer at reagere på, eller gør det? Mit håb er at regeringen, og alle andre danske politikkere vågner op og stopper denne micro-management af borgernes hverdag. Resultatet af ikke at gøre det bliver jo i yderste konsekvens at vi stopper med at stemme, fordi vores folkevalgte jo træffer vores valg for os.

Lars, Lene, Helle, Villy, Pia, Margrete & Ø

Styr landet, så styrer vi vores

Imod burkaforbud

2009-08-20T14:38:00.000-07:00

svar til Berlingske's leder

http://www.berlingske.dk/article/20090817/ledere/708170065/

Jeg giver Jelved fuldstændig ret, et eventuelt burkaforbud er det mest tåbelige forslag danske politikkere er kommet på i lang tid (desværre en regering jeg selv stemte på). I Danmark pryder vi også af frisind og rummelighed, men så snart noget bliver lidt for fremmed så vender danskerne på en tallerken. Ærgeligt, for ved at velkomme forskelle kan vi som samfund og mennesker blive rigere og lærer mere om andre og om den verden vi deler. Et burkaFORBUD repræsentere den samme undertrykkelse som nogle kvinder der bære burka allerede føler, og således skaber forbudet flere problemer end det løser (og ikke at forbudet løser nogle problemer overhovedet). Jeg håber at denne symbol politik ikke gennemføres idet det er et udtryk for snævertsynethed og intolerance, det synes jeg ikke vi skal stå model til og jeg tilskynder derfor alle til at udtrykke deres utilfredshed og bekymring her således vi kan råber vores politkkere op i tide.

Emotions and pressure

2009-04-01T16:11:00.000-07:00

This time is characterized by many deadlines which I am in the process of overcoming, but there is a lot on my mind and I find it extremely hard to concentrate. In stead I find myself wishing me away from this hectic environment. At same time it gives me a sense of achievement to push on and really score high despite many consecutive deadlines. Being better, being more calm and in good shape is three things that counts for me in these challenging times.

I also feel a much greater need to be in contact with Anne and my family to have something steady to hold on to in an everyday where my focus is required to shift by the hour.

The "creation" of grades only motivates me vagely, therefore I see my self looking up opportunities where I can add tangible value. This is good as well as a curse since it gives me more to see in a time where I might would want more time for my self. What I have seen my self cut back on when under pressure is the maintenance of more distant relationships, focusing on core things: my self, school work, and family+Anne. I am clear about the importance and strength of these three factors. Just as much as I miss them a fell home sick, then at the same time I am greatly motivated by the outlook to go home to them. The latter supports me and gives me a much needed push to achieve the goals which I am here for.

Clarity in a state of information overload

2009-03-22T16:43:00.000-07:00

Everything has been so hectic in the months since I moved to Iceland, the culture shock has come and gone, the practicalities has been taken care of and a state of stability is coming to me as I am again becoming used to the life as a student.

One significant event happened thursday evening when I was in the pool with Marc. As he also has a girlfriend in Germany this was a topic which we were exploring, and it was him who said the words which has given me an understanding for living together apart and shared with me some insights how to tolerate the hardship of being without loved ones in the everyday. The exact words I don't remember, but the clarity that I feel now also gives a reassurance and confidence which make it easier for me to enjoy the moments here.

The learning curve here is so steep, one thing is being back in university. A completely different thing is being abroad again, and even though I am in the same university, in the same city, seeing some of the same people, the experience unlike my 2006 experience in nearly every way. I feel more mature and responsible now, I feel a great loss not being with Rasmus seeing him walk, hearing him talk, I miss Anne and the love we share, and I miss my family in a way I did not experience any time before. Therefore what I learned thursday is only more important, because it gives me a chance to harvest more learning, build a stronger character and develop myself in new ways.

So,

Thank you Anne, for being always so loving, caring and honest with me, I feel loved. I love you too

Thank you mom, for being there on Skype, for listening and participating

Thank you dad, for all the sweet updates, for putting Rasmus in front of the webcam. I miss you

Thank you Anders, for listning to me, our brotherhood is unbreakable

Thank you Jeppe, you are an awesome challenge and you and I will go far and deep in our discussions

Thank you Marc, for giving me much needed clarity and giving me a new chance to love Reykjavik

Rejuvenation

2009-03-02T15:28:00.000-08:00

Noone can live in a vacuum, without deep and sincere personal relationships one will have a hard time to thrive, since the meaning and recognition from people of the "inner circle" are a primary source to life and motivation.

I have felt this very hard, though I am enjoying many aspects of my daliy life here in Reykjavik, I cannot help to feel a little closer to exhaustion every day. This comes from the fact that I have no where to recharge but in Denmark, where currently all the people who hold the capacity lives.

This I have realized from having just been home, this was energizing, rejuvenating and reaffirming, it boosted my confidence and more importantly many of my negatively charged assumptions were deflated.

In the time before I came home I was increasingly setting assuming, and in hindsigt overestimating, the trade-off's, of being in Reykjavik. The solitude also has made me more determined to hold on to Anne and continue to honestly share with her my concerns, I did this now and it contributed very much to my decision-making effort which had become the primary goal of this trip home.

I learned what I aimed for and now, being rejuvenated, I am ready for another couple of months in Reykjavik.

Power of the mind

2009-01-26T14:52:00.000-08:00

I have for the past week been puzzled about how my mind works, the energy which my thoughts consume, the energy which they give me, the time they take away when I am just staring, the opportunities which they offer me. The last weeks has been marked by big ups and down, which I account to the fact that I have been exposed to huge changes in my close personal sphere. The experience of being a student in Reykjavik this time is much different, in 2006 and had known and prepared for 6 months before coming here, I had just left my girl friend, I did not live with Anders, I had not met Anne, Rasmus had not been born. With these factors now influencing my life, a long with no time to prepare my self I have found my self in a state of mental stress, negatively affecting my mood and confidence.
Now after close to three weeks here I am noticing that my fluctuations are becoming smaller which boost my confidence and again reinforces my decission of going to Reykjavik altogether. Coming to this state of reducing the fluctuations has demanded a conscious effort in working on meaningful relationships here and maintaining my relationship to Anne and the people at home.
Over the past 5 days two changes has occured to strengthen my commitment, thursday last week I attended an AIESEC meeting and I immediately felt a sense of belonging and a much sought after feeling of contributing positively to others. And on a more personal level I attended a birthday of a class mate, thank you Alfred!
Good night

Isolation in others company?

2009-01-22T17:27:00.000-08:00

It might be late, I might have just had a good night, but there is an issue on my mind which I can't let go! The question which flies around in my mind is "How is it possible to be alone around other people?"

As a student in university I am every day surrounded by people, hence I am socialicing. Though upon each and every encounter there is a significant emptiness. I do not hold anything aginst these people, but as soon as the interaction has ended immediatly comes the feeling of loneliness.

I take this as a lack of deep, emotional, meaningful relationships. I have these, but they are the ones I have isolated my self from by going abroad to do my master studies. Upon evaluating the opportunity I had not considered that it would hit this hard to be on a distance from everyone I love and care for. Though I thought of this when I was in Qatar, it did not reflect on an otherwise similar thought of going abroad to Iceland in stead. This is remarkable negilence in the assesment of opportunity cost, how foolish of me!!!

There are the people who I miss now; my family, mom, dad, Anders, Jeppe, Rasmus. Possibly even Anne more, you are the most unique, beautiful and giving individual I have ever met and I am grateful for everything we have together from chats to dinners and holidays. And of course there is also my nearest friends, Lars, Rene, Stig, Henrik, Kasper, Andreas, Thomas, I hope you are all doing well, and I now know how much value you added every day.

Typical how one only learns what one has when its gone.

Jesus christ

Loneliness

2009-01-19T14:05:00.000-08:00

There is so much happening, many events, many new people, news 24/7, cell phones, email, chats, virtual and physical networks, though all of this surrounds me I still feel an, sometimes, overwhelming emptiness, solitude, yes quite frankly I feel alone.
It is odd since the amount of offers, options, electives and alternatives are larger than I ever remember. Its a difficult transition period for me since over the past two months I have found myself and it has become clear to me what matters and what does not. Among my top priorities are contact to my girlfriend, family, relatives and close friends. This means that certain hours are reserved for this, though at the same time my old priorities are still pulling me, things such as internet surfing, youtube, hanging out with school mates. This is all fine seen from my old perspective, but as it no longer correspond with who I am then I am actively pushing down these things on my everyday list in order to make space to what is of higher importance. This is not easier, the whole process of redefining myself come over two months, and now I see my self in a new environment, with new daily activities, in a new time zone, trying to implement the insights I have so painfully gained over the past months.
Nonetheless there is no doubt that the current situation is also an advantage, since with all habits and small everyday things being uprooted it allows for new personal order and life style to succeed the old.
This new order will be documented through regular blogging, frequent contact to those close to me and new ever exceeding goals.

A new beginning

2009-01-13T12:01:00.000-08:00

So here I am, back the educational environment, a place I had only thought of returning to in a distant future. Anyhow I am back and my initial impressions and experiences are that this is the best I could do for my self at this time.

University is for me an avenue for me to put my thoughts into words. The clear frames which are set up for each of my subjects gives me a clear idea what I can and want to contribute with. This clarity also encourages me to be more ambitious. For the first time I can clearly see the path which is ahead of me, this stems from (a) I have given a lot of consideration to my choice of university, (b) I have additional perspectives from my work experience and (c) my priorities are very clear. This is a clear sign of increased maturity and hence focus which I have developed since I last attended university, and my hope is of course that this degree will give me additional possibilities for development as my bachelor did.

I have tried to grow up fast, to achieve much in little time, and when I look back I feel I have seen and tried out what I could wish for in my first 25 years. Of course periods has been more hectic than others, but generally "carpe diem" expresses well how I have gone about living my life.

Now, I am again focusing on developing myself after a period of developing my surroundings. I still firmly believes that more success and life quality will come from developing and believing in that I can make the world around me a better place. And it starts with myself. To me that means I that what to be a role model to my self, I want to live in a way which is in compliance with my values and beliefs. I this pursuit I am grateful for the book my fantastic girl friend gave me for christmas "Ethics for Amador" which I finished just last week(I will come back to this book). Secondly, I concur with Mahatma Ghandi "Be the change you want to see in the world" thereby saying I am trying mine to change would I see needs change. I wish for my self to create a sphere around me which signals trust and ambition to change, this is a high ranking personal development project. More on this later.

;-)

Quiet before the storm

2009-01-11T06:04:00.000-08:00

So, today is the last day of my unemployment period, tomorrow starts the experiences of the new path I have chosen.
I feel like I want to reflect upon the past 2 months, everything has been so turbulent, with the excessive amount of free time I found my self thinking a lot. At first it seemed very unproductive, then it became scary because there was many thoughts which I earlier had paid no attention to. But during this period I got to really go over all the issues in my mind and connect the dots.
The thoughts about who I am, what I want and my life achievements was especially hard to deal with, so first I pushed it away refusing to think about it. But such thoughts I had pushed in front of me for a long time while claiming me too busy because of work and other activities. But just a few days into November after having deliberated with the AIESEC rangers I started this thinking process. This proved to have a depth I did not see to start with (and actually with this reflection now I am reaching new depths), firstly I started sorting out the straight forward and rational questions, "What do I want to do?" "Where?". Then came the offspring from these questions "Why do want exactly this?" "What am choosing not to do?", "What has occupied me in the past preventing me from doing what I am thinking of?". When these thoughts first struck me I was paralyzed because it seemed so big to think about, it was scary being so conscious about what it means to be the the driver's seat of one's own life.
This experience I had not anticipated when I was made redundant, and I did not see the value in this experience until now, only now I recognize how powerful and valuable it has been to have this time.
The result which I see is that I am more clear about who I am, I am more determined and goal oriented and conscious about my choices, since in the light of the new knowledge I have about my self I have a much better idea about what works to my benefit and what does not.

The old figure of speech "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" has yet again proven it self to be true :-)

Remarkable Reykjavik

2009-01-08T17:00:00.000-08:00

So, I'm back in Reykjavik, living in the same part of town, going to the same university, having 2 of the same professors, the weather is the same, the school is arranging the same "study tours", and yet everything is very different.

The atmosphere has changed, the streets and bars are not as lively anymore, people don't have the same facial expression, eye contact is very rare. The crisis looks as to have hit the common man and woman hard.

I believe as a foreigner here I can bring something positive to the Icelanders, not only foreign currency (and thats not a lot anyway, compared to what they need) but more importantly make them see how great a country they have and what great qualities the society here have.

I admire the icelanders "out goingness" which I see has faded a bit. It very connected to their creativity and inspiration, hence it may be challenging to work with icelanders on the upcoming university projects. I have just finished Ethics for Amador (Ética para Amador), and I think I can take a couple of learnings from the book to help the Icelanders realise their qualities and have their confidence and ethusiams blossom.

I will return next week on my progress on this and responses.

Stay close, and have a good weekend when that comes

first Doha experience

2008-12-04T16:05:00.000-08:00

So now my forst full 24 hours in Doha has comes to an end, this has been a rollercoaster ride. Firstly nervous about the interview with Qatar Airways, secondly relieved about the outcome, then concerned and unhappy the possible choice of leaving all I have to come here. Thirdly, came the reassurance after having been out my department manager and a colleague and lastly came the relaxing and letting go by going out with a drink with Ricardo (I met Ricardo yesterday evening upon arrival, and we have speaking very well the entire time here. He will be coming here with his wife and his 18 month year old son)

So all-in-all I am filled with impressions and tomorrow I am going home with my mind full of thoughts. This will be a decision that will change my life, and that makes it just as appealling as it is frightning. I want to say yes because of all the options it opens up and to the adventure. But as of now I hesitate since I am afraid of opportunity cost, what else can I achieve, and do I sell out, can I make more in another place? these thoughts I will be getting straight over the next couple of days.

Mostly I am just looking to get home to my Anne, kissing her and assuring that I love her.

hugs from Doha

Blog master

2007-04-16T15:29:00.000-07:00

Hi there

Now I have become responsible for yet another blog

This time I have started a blog for the MC of Denmark

http://thedanishmc.blogspot.com/

I hope you will visit, comment, share, learn and spread
the word.

Sleep tight

Peter

Humans and anthropology

2007-03-07T05:42:00.000-08:00

Wauw!
I am so excited how I keep discovering new aspects
of the human.
It is almost incomprehensible how the human works.
Yet anthropologists such as Donald E. Brown makes
his contribution.
On this page is the full list of human universals
http://condor.depaul.edu/~mfiddler/hyphen/humunivers.htm

I am amazed about how complex humans are, and yet we
share many traits.

Have a look at it, and you can always let me know what YOU
think of it.

I'll blog later

World leader blog

2007-03-03T10:42:00.000-08:00

This is a request to all who come across my blog.
As I am elected president of AIESEC in Denmark for
term 07/08 I offer you all an insight to our common blog

http://globalleadersinaction0708.blogspot.com/

I hope you will enjoy the reading and participate.

Hugs

Peter

IPM in Egypt

2007-02-25T11:14:00.000-08:00

Hi there everybody.
Here is my first posting on my new blog.
I am currently attending an AIESEC conference,
International Presidents Meeting 2007 at
Palmera Beach Resort, beautiful.
We are preparing to update the legislative foundation
of our organization. Its claimed to take a long time...
sooo here I am, blogging, since its my predecessor who
has the voting rights!

At this meeting I have really learned about myself, as well
as about AIESEC, and I have been networking quite a bit
with MCP elects from all over the world, our business partners
and many, many Egyptian.
Speaking of Egypt, all my sympathy goes to Abdel Kareem Nabil Soliman
who has been jailed for four years, for expressing his views on his blog.
According to BBC http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/6386613.stm
his sentence is based on contempt of religion, insulting the president
and spreading false information.
I find this to be very concerning for the freedom of speech, I have found
myself involved in similar discussions, see this article in the Daily Star, Egypt!
http://www.dailystaregypt.com/article.aspx?ArticleID=5714
I don't hope I will be exposed to any above mentioned events which happened
to Abdel!
Okay, enough critical talk and thinking!
I am currently here in Egypt, http://www.palmerabeachresort.com/
a fantastic venue, for a fantastic conference.
The conference is to elect the new the new international management board,
and to prepare the newly elected presidents for their coming role, which is
1. of July.
The conference is based on "The U-flow" by http://www.ottoscharmer.com/
a hugely challenging and aspiring model to work with.
The day before yesterday all the newly elected presidents played a game
"The Samurai Game" www.samuraigame.org
But for now I will end.